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Moving Day!

Finally, the day has come where we move OUT of this tiny, one bedroom apartment and upgrade to a two bedroom with a fenced in backyard (and where people don’t die in our apartment pool – but that’s a whole ‘nother story!). I’ve actually got about 3 hours before we can get the keys, so I’m somewhat relaxed. I plan to do the dishes, read a little, and study in the next three hours. Hunter and Romeo are both sound asleep and the only noise in my apartment is the fishtank because it’s low on water (easier to move when it’s like that).

Sometimes, I go through tough times. Nothing particularly bad goes on in my life, I just don’t always have the most positive attitude. In the past several weeks, I’ve realized how easy it is for me to go from being in a great mood to seriously hating my life. It’s like someone has flipped a switch, and that concerns me.

But to be honest, I have so much to be thankful for. I have a wonderful family – despite the major drama we have going on from time to time – they are supportive of me and only want what is best for me. I wouldn’t be who I am today without Tom. I can’t wait to take on his last name and make our relationship the most official it can be. My little kitty cat makes me so happy, too – he knows just how to cheer me up. I really think animals know when you’re sad or upset, even if you’re not outwardly showing it. This new little puppy is already very protective of Tom and I, too.

School is going well, I have the most amazing friends a girl could ask for, my bills are paid, there’s food on the table. I have a good job, go to a GREAT university, and have spent the last three years of my life living it up and enjoying myself immensely. I’ve grown a lot, and learned even more about myself than I ever could imagine.

With all of that being said, why shouldn’t I be more positive? I need to learn to push the negative thoughts away – as I just demonstrated, there is no reason to have the negative thoughts. There’s nothing about me that needs to change – maybe minor things, like not cursing so much or getting more exercise – but I’m not a bad person. I am compassionate, helpful, genuine, and trustworthy. Daily, I need to remind myself of this because in some cases where confidence is essential, I’m being held back. Considering the way my life is right now, why shouldn’t I be more confident?

Update on Hunter

Everything is going so well!  Tom and I took Hunter to a local dog park yesterday.  He’s funny when he’s on a leash – he doesn’t walk ahead of you, and frequently stops behind you and just parks it.  Then, when you call him and tug on his leash slightly, he comes RUNNING up to you at full force!  When we got to the park, there were several other large dogs who ran up to him.  We decided it was a good idea to let him socialize a little bit (if the other dogs came up to him, fine, but we weren’t pushing).  One of the dogs wanted to smell Hunter, but he kept running away, which caused the other dog to start chasing him.  A couple puppy barks later, he came running to hide behind Tom.  It was sad and sweet at the same time.  We continued to throw his ball and walk the perimeter of the park (this time, away from the other dogs – there were two full sized pit bulls running around and we were a little afraid of them).  When we got home, he was tired out (of course!) but so were we.

He gulped almost a full bowl of water when we got home, took maybe four steps, and peed.  Oops!  We hadn’t learned his signs of needing to potty yet, but now we do.  He has piddled a little a couple more times, but nothing significant.  I think the best job he has done so far with potty training is waking Tom up to go out in the middle of the night – he didn’t have a single accident!  We attempted to put him in his crate for the night, but he barked and whined.  Since it was a long, hard day for him we figured we’d hold off (and try to find more information on crate training so we did it the right way).  Needless to say, Tom slept on the couch, Hunter next to the couch, and Romeo and I in bed.  We’re trying really hard to give Romeo an equal amount of attention and ensure he knows that he can still be in the same places he was allowed (and enjoyed) before the puppy came along.  Romeo seems a little bit upset still, but is adjusting well.  He and Hunter have rubbed noses a few times, and although there has been some hissing, we don’t expect any problems (usually Hunter just comes up to Romeo too quickly and that’s why he hisses).

With that said, do ya’ll have any advice on crate training for puppies?  I found one web site that seems very informative – click here – but I’d also like some more personal suggestions/ideas.  We also went to Petsmart earlier and bought a puppy book.  I know that sounds dumb but I really wanted to impress upon Tom the necessity to train and raise our puppy properly.  Since he has never had a puppy before, I figured a book would be good because he can bring it to work and use it whenever he wants to know something about the puppy.  The internet is a great resource, too, and I keep reminding him of that.  I don’t want to spoil Hunter’s perfection.  This dog is literally perfect, and I’m not just saying that because he’s mine!  He doesn’t nip like most puppies do, he’s SO! happy and affectionate, is already recognizing his name, and stops doing whatever it is he’s doing when we tell him to stop.  I’m truly amazed at this dog.

Hunter the Yellow Lab

This is the yellow lab/hound mix that Tom and I adopted this morning from an animal shelter in our area.  His original name was Ronny, but neither of us liked it so we’re going to call him Hunter.  He’s 10 weeks old and in perfect health!  We have bathed him (he apparently rolled in dog poop this morning when he was with the other puppies of the litter), set up his crate (for at night) and he’s got plenty of toys to play with.  We introduced him to Romeo and both of the animals were perfectly fine with each other.  Romeo seems kind of perturbed at me (”Why another animal?  WHY!?”) but I think he’ll be alright.  This is going to be quite the adventure :)

Packing Photos

I blogged yesterday about packing. Well, we’ve definitely been doing a lot of that! I took a few photos of our pig stay apartment because I had to show you all. I can’t wait untilwe move and things can be in order again.

In the last picture, you can see that Romeo is trying to figure out what the heck is going on!  His favorite spots are completely displaced and I’m hoping that he’ll successfully adjust in the new apartment.

Yesterday, we went up to Petsmart and fell in love with two puppies there.  They’re a hound/lab mix, but predominately lab.  I held this little boy that I seriously could have carried out of the store.  There was a little girl sleeping soundly and she finally woke up just in time to say hi to us before we left.  Screw taking just one, I would’ve taken both!  Tom and I plan to go back next weekend to see if they’re still available because they are exactly what we’ve been looking for.

I made it.

April 2008

I can’t believe I made it through this week and last week unscathed. I could very well end up with 3 A’s and a B for this semester; all that work and site-ignoring paid off! When it comes to school, I’m always so motivated, and I’ve always been that way. Honestly, though, I am starting to feel a burn out coming, so the two week break before summer semester is welcomed.

Ever since I signed a lease for a 2/2 earlier in the week, I have been “mentally moved out” of my current apartment. I’ve mentally decided how my kitchen will be arranged, and can just picture coming home to Romeo and a puppy. By the way, a visitor asked what type of puppy we’re going to get. Tom has always wanted to get a yellow lab, and since this puppy is his college graduation present (from last August – it couldn’t happen any sooner because of our current apartment), he gets his wish. Plus, I’ve always wanted a big dog. I grew up with some shih tzus and a cocker spaniel, so a yellow lab will be different.

I don’t know how many of you follow my Twitter, but within a couple hours of taking my white collar crime final this morning, I was bored out of my mind. I didn’t want to read (been doing that ALL WEEK to an extreme). I played Mario Kart Wii for a total of four races and that didn’t cut it. I reformatted my mp3 player because it crapped out yesterday, which took a matter of minutes. Then I played with themes and decided on this one (isn’t it pretty? I love the colors). Romeo’s been sleeping all day and Tom doesn’t get back until a little later. Plus, I haven’t really been in the mood to hang out. I think I’m just so excited about moving out now that I actually KNOW where I’m going that I can’t stand to be in the apartment anymore.

Speaking of the apartment, it looks like a tornado came through here because I haven’t really had time to pick up. I try my best to make everything look nice (not perfect, just livable) before Tom comes home. That’s just an example of a trait that I got from my mom – my knack for cleanliness and organization!

Have a fabulous weekend!